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It's all it takes to avoid tension, conflict and world war.
And yet for some people it's impossible to do because to them it means surrending some perceived power. Which it doesn't. Unless you're a power addict.
I feel guilty if I KNOW I've been mean to anyone but sometimes I can be mean in a passive agressive way without even knowing it because I'm so disconnected from the rest of humanity.
Sometimes I don't know I was mean till later.. then I imagine the big knife going into my forehead, then even later than that, I realize the person didn't think it was mean, and I take the mental knife out of my forehead.
Sometimes I'm mean to my brother and my niece sees it and thinks it's okay to be mean to her brother and then I have to be mean to her...It's a viscous cycle.